Everyone claims to have the best friends possible, and maybe
they think they do, but they have clearly never met the group of mystical and
crazy creatures that I surround myself with daily.
I was in the middle of writing this blog post when Tiffany
gave a great presentation on what to look for in a friend. And, although all of my friends exhibit
all of the qualities that she spoke about (honesty, caring, etc.), they are
also a group of wild, mad, foolish, dysfunctional and debatably insane individuals. But somehow, all of our different types
of crazy fit together and create a group of fun-loving, entertaining, and
beautiful friends.
What makes my group of friends so great is that we have
different and dynamic interests, as well as unique and distinctive
personalities. The friends that I
have are not just “party” friends, or “class friends,” or “people that you can
live with but don’t really like,” they are all genuinely great people who I
know I can hang out with in any situation, at any time of day, and we’re bound
to have fun. I know that they will
be there to celebrate with me when something great happens and to comfort me in
times of need.
Now, this blog post is not merely
to talk up my friends and let them know how much I love them (well..maybe it was about that a little bit), but rather to try
to encourage you all to find a group of people who you really, truly care about. And once you find this group, have as
much fun as possible with them before you are forced to part ways at the end of
college. When you find a group of
good friends, you don’t need money to have a good time. And, as cheesy as that sounds, it’s true. It doesn’t matter what activity you are
doing, as long as you are with the people that you love and have fun with,
that’s all that really matters.
Some of my favorite memories with my friends are when we are just
bumming around the apartment, doing nothing at all. If you surround yourself with positive people, you don't need to spend any money to guarantee that you'll have fun.
So, if you are a freshman or
sophomore and reading this, you still have time to find a group of friends that
you really connect with and when you do, cherish the time you have with
them. Your next few years will fly
by, so don’t waste any time with people who don’t bring out the best in you.
If you are a junior or senior
reading this, chances are you have your solid group of friends already. Spend as much time with them as
possible. With graduation
encroaching, this is probably the last time in your life that you’ll be able to
be with all of your best friends in one place before you all move away.
Now, I don’t want to end this post
on a depressing note about college being short and yaddayadda, so I'll leave you with some
more reasons why my group of friends is too great.
Who else would:
-drag you downtown in a wagon
because you broke your foot and couldn’t walk?
-accidentally smash their forehead
into your jaw while dancing too hard to Taylor Swift’s weird new dubstep song
and knock your tooth out?
-blast “All I Want for Christmas is You” by Mariah Carey all
the way from St. Mikes to Trinity Campus, while holding onto a Christmas tree
that is falling off of your car?
-befriend TWO gingers?